February 2012
19 posts
Anonymous asked: Hi there! I'm a soon-to-be Southern lady (fingers crossed--my boyfriend lives in Louisiana so I'm doing all the research I can ahead of time) and wanted some advice--could you maybe post something more specific about hairstyles than "the higher the hair, the closer to God/heaven"? That would be super helpful! Thank you!
Anonymous asked: Can a girl be a southern lady even at High School?
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Rule No. 232
Don’t let a bad day make you forget how amazing your life is.
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Rule No. 231
Decide right now, in this very moment, to start living the life you have always imagined. No one is in your way but you.
Anonymous asked: What do you think about TCLUTZ? I've heard so much, and seen so much I just don't know what to believe.
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Rule No. 230
There are times in your life when you are going to have to let go of something good in order to move on to something great. This is going to be very hard. Just know that what waits for you is more amazing than you could ever imagine.
Anonymous asked: What are the best hairstyles for a southern lady?
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Rule No. 229
“Never practice two vices at once.” -Tallulah Bankhead
Anonymous asked: In the end, everything was worth it, because I really feel like I can trust again and even fell in love after nearly one year of being sick because of a broken heart. I know it was me who made it through. I just wanted to tell you that I printed your advice out and read it several times when I was just before breaking down again. It really gave me faith and trust and strength to carry on. Thank...
Anonymous asked: I am the girl who asked you for advice months ago. I was heartbroken because my boyfriend who had serious alcohol and other issues treated me so badly and after all broke up with me. I was desperate because I felt like he was the one and there won't ever be another man who can make me feel like I felt when I was with him, no matter what he did. But you told me to be strong and encouraged me...
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Rule No. 228
“You must meet each person’s eyes while clinking glasses in a toast. Otherwise, the ritual has no meaning, it’s just pure show.” -Rebecca Wells
Such wise words from a lovely, Southern woman.
collegebelle asked: I'm a southern college student and I'm also an English/Journalism major. I'm starting a blog on how difficult college is for girls and how we're all so judgmental. Is there anyway you can post my questions so other girls will read it? THANKS!
Anonymous asked: What is the proper way to respond if another girl is being really mean to you when you are out at a bar and she's flaunting how she is with the guy you like? Basically, she is flaunting the fact that she stole him from you.
Anonymous asked: What about all the times you've said "Southern is a state of mind."?
Anonymous asked: what states do you consider southern???
Anonymous asked: what are the rules on being last to arrive and first to leave? just as rude?
Anonymous asked: Hey there, darling. I absolutely adore your blog, I just stumbled upon it and went through the entire thing and was sad when I finished it! I was definitely raised as a 'southern belle' by a few of the best 'southern belle's'! I have a few questions though dear. First, what does a true southern lady watch on television, second, what does a true southern lady do for...
Anonymous asked: In college, is it possible to be in a sorority and have a job at the same time?
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Rule No. 227
Smile at every person you come into contact with. Not only will it make your day better but you may be the only person kind enough to smile at them the entire day. Think about that.
January 2012
9 posts
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Rule No. 226
When in doubt, overdress.
Anonymous asked: Hello, dear. I adore your blog & feel your advice is spot-on. Now I have a question of my own: a former friend did something very mean-spirited to a dear friend which, quite frankly, disgusted me. His personality changed & now he's the type of person I don't really want to associate with (he's very arrogant & doesn't think anything of hurting others for his...
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Rule No. 225
Celebrate your Southern. Never forget to enjoy the fact that you live in the most magical place in the world.
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Rule No. 224
If you are fake or lying to people, it will not take very long for everyone to find you out. Be true to who you are and people will love you for it.
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Rule No. 223
If you let “hanging out” replace an actual date, you will always be hanging out. If you like someone, go through the proper steps and actually date.
Anonymous asked: What do you think is the best everyday polish color for manicures and pedicures?
Anonymous asked: I know this is a bit random but as a Southern Belle, what do you think of Hart of Dixie and its portrayal of the south? xx
Anonymous asked: First, I LOVE your site :) Second, I am transferring to another school, and am going to meet my chapter there for the first time in a couple days, at lunch. Any suggestions for what to wear? I'm going to the house, not anywhere formal, per say. I don't want to over do it, but I definitely don't want to be overdressed! Thanks!
Anonymous asked: what are your thoughts on thank yous for gifts? my boyfriends parents sent me facebook messages to thank me for the gifts that i sent them, but i feel it is only appropriate to send them a thank you card for the wonderful gifts they got me. is a card too much?
December 2011
10 posts
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Rule No. 222
Learn how to tie a bow tie.
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Rules For Holiday Parties.
Never be the first to arrive or the last to leave. Never, ever be both.
Never show up to a dinner party empty handed. Champagne, a small dessert, or flowers typically are perfect.
If you are going to multiple parties in one night, try to allot at least 45 minutes at each party.
Thank your host/hostess two times- once when you arrive and again when you leave.
Be sure to check the appropriate...
Anonymous asked: Ok so I want to be a cheerleader at my college and in a sorority. Is it possible to be in both?
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Rule No. 221
Do not wear anything with your Greek letters on it if you do not look presentable. Do not jump out of the shower and throw your hair in a very sloppy bun, grab a pair of sweatpants, and then put on a shirt with your letters.
When you wear your letters, you are not only representing yourself but your ENTIRE organization- both on your campus and across the entire country. Do you want to be the one...
Anonymous asked: what is your personal opinion on 'grinding' at parties, dances, etc. ?
Anonymous asked: Is it too much to send your ex a Christmas card? I send cards to all of my friends, but I don't want to seem like a creeper.
Anonymous asked: Can black people be southern belles?
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Rule No. 220
Dress for your body type not what is “trendy.”
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Rule No. 219
Anyone who participates in internet drama is not worth your time. Your grandchildren will be able to see those tweets. #LibraryOfCongress #WatchYourLanguage
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Rule No. 218
Just because someone mistreated you does not mean you have the right to mistreat them. Remember who you are and how you were raised. Be better than that.
November 2011
10 posts
Anonymous asked: What is the proper way to treat another female with loose morals and class when they are around and interacting with your friends? How can you still be a lady and show her you do not appreciate her?
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Rule No. 217
Be aware of how your “sit face” (the face you make when you are listening intently or concentrating particularly hard or just zoned out) looks. If you look angry any time someone is speaking to you chances are people are going to assume you are angry.
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Rule No. 216
Never, ever show up to a dinner party empty-handed.
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Rule No. 215
Never be the first to arrive or the last to leave but especially never be both. There is such a thing as over staying your welcome.
Anonymous asked: Do you think it would be too pretentious of a young college-aged lady to wear a wristwatch? If not, what kind of watch would you recommend for a daily use and what watch just for special occasions? Thank you!
Anonymous asked: What's your take on southern belles who are also rowdy country girls? Can't we be both?
Anonymous asked: Is red lipstick appropriate for everyday wear? I feel like some girls take away the classy look it's supposed to have because they wear it daily with outfits that don't go. Like they wear it because they can without taking a look in a mirror before they walk out of the house and when they obviously shouldn't. There should definitely be a rule made about red lipstick.
Anonymous asked: If you are from Texas could you consider yourself a southern belle? Since Texas isn't really "true" south...
Anonymous asked: Hi! I have a question. I'm planning on rushing this Fall for a Uni in the South. Although I do not look like the stereotype, I am an open lesbian and I am engaged to a women. If this says anything about my looks, I was a cheerleader in high school and I'm as classy as they come. However, I am scared this is going to hurt my chances of being in an sorority. I know I can keep my...
Anonymous asked: ** question part 3 - I honestly feel bad for her, but this has been how her personality has been, and it's quite annoying. I'd appreciate any advice you can give me to help me help her! From one sister to another! Thank you!!
October 2011
23 posts
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Rule No. 214
“Don’t be afraid to fall in love. It’s the only thing that matters in life. You just fall in love with as many things as possible.” -Country Strong
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Rule No. 213
In the South we expect a lot out of our Gents- from opening every single door to impressing our Daddy. He goes above and beyond every day. Never take him for granted. Let him know how much you love him and appreciate all the things he does for you :)